20. I Love It When She Decides Who She's Becoming

There’s something sacred about this moment in time.
The quiet pause between who you’ve been… and who you’re becoming.

In this episode of I Love It When She, we’re leaning into the fresh start effect, not as a trend, but as an invitation. An invitation to slow down, reflect honestly, and consciously decide what you want your next chapter to look like.

This is a cozy, expansive conversation about ending one season with gratitude and stepping into the next with intention. We talk about honoring where you are right now, recognizing how far you’ve come, and intentionally shaping what’s next—without rushing, forcing, or abandoning yourself along the way.

I’m walking you through my exact year-end / new-year ritual, the one I return to every single year to reset my mindset, clarify my goals, and rewire my subconscious so my future doesn’t just feel possible… it feels inevitable.

This episode is equal parts strategy and energetics, grounded reflection and big dreaming, clarity and magic.

💫 In this episode, we talk about:

• Why the fresh start effect works (and how your brain is wired to love a new chapter)
• Reflecting on the year you’ve lived: the challenges, lessons, and growth
• Identifying time-wasters and energy leaks without shame
• Reassessing where you are right now and what’s inspiring you
• Redefining success for the year ahead on your terms
• Choosing core focuses that anchor your goals and decisions
• Setting soul-lit variable goals and grounded fixed goals
• Creating aligned daily actions (because how we spend our days is how we spend our lives)
• Writing a letter from your future self to collapse time and activate belief
• Using visualization and vision boards to reprogram your subconscious and call in your desired reality

🧠 This episode is for you if:

You’re craving a reset that feels intentional, not rushed.
You want your next year to feel aligned, abundant, and deeply you.
You’re ready to stop drifting and start deciding.

✨ Ways to Go Deeper (mentioned in this episode)

🔮 Future You Frequency — FREE Workshop

If this episode cracked something open for you, this is your next step.
We’ll dive deeper into identity shifts, manifestation, subconscious rewiring, and stepping fully into the version of you who already knows what she wants.

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🌙 Alchemy — My Membership

If you’re craving consistent support, mindset work, and manifestation practices you can integrate into real life, Alchemy is where we do the work together. This is where reflection becomes embodiment and intention becomes identity.

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✨ Designing Your Dream Life Course

For the woman who’s ready to intentionally build a life that feels aligned, expansive, and fulfilling from the inside out. This is about clarity, vision, and creating a life that actually feels good to live.

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🤍 Gentle reminder:

You don’t need to become someone else to create a new life.
You just need to decide who you’re ready to be and start showing up as her.

I love it when she decides who she’s becoming. ✨

✨ Let's stay connected, babe!

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🎶 The dreamy music behind this podcast was arranged + performed by my incredible husband, Alex Leach.
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